I am confused. Social Media has forsaken me. Everything I thought I knew turned out to be only half the question with no answer. If only we had all listened in our middle school safety assembly when they told us to never post anything on the internet… we could just start fresh. Although, then we wouldn’t have all these years of practice on social media that make us the savvy communication generation we pride ourselves on being… bit of a catch 22. To help wrap my mind around how we got to this point, I tried to make a timeline of my social media history.
1998- All I want to do is go over my friends house so that I can watch the new Disney movie.
2000- I’m a kid, begging for a computer so that I can get AIM and instant message my BFF’s. My away message is the most critical part of my identity. It has to be clever, cute, and pretty, of course. I spend the majority of the time I’m “Away” brainstorming new away messages. The internet is scary though and my parents need to protect me from it at all costs!
2002- Myspace. I have to come up with perfect picture to represent who I am. I will choose my top 8 friends in order to make a statement about who I’m the closest to (and who I am fighting with that day).
2004- My older brother is all about Facebook and I need it in my life. I’m too young, my parents are still focused on the old mantra “stranger, danger”
2007- I am introduced to the world of blogging and can’t quite understand why everyone isn’t as obsessed with my life as much as I am.
2009- Facebook is my life.
2011- Twitter.
2013- 10,000 other addictive sites.
We have been bred to look at our lives from the perspective of others to understand what makes a good post. What can I say that will make everyone admire my words for ten seconds, but leave a legacy of admiration in their “like”. It’s been a confusing road. What I was brought up to fear is now what I am being trained on to get a job. When did social media change from a risky pastime to an online job application?
Now we find ourselves in these awkward positions of having ten years of self identifying activity on social media, but having to make sure our online reputation is clean and pristine for our careers. Microblogging has gotten so out of hand we couldn’t even guess as to what topics we may have mentioned a month ago, let alone a year ago. It’s second nature. We have a thought, an idea, a frustration, we post it for the world to know, to laugh at, to share, or to comment on. Even this blog will forever go in my online history, hopefully no future employers take offense to anything I’m talking about.
Essentially, our mind has become public property- so how do we reign that in before our job interview?